Whenever I find that my boyfriend has saved a picture of another woman (often times a famous woman but not always) onto his computer, it makes me angry. I want to close off my affections for him because I feel betrayed. Most times the pictures are not nude pictures, just provocative, but it still hurts me.
When I am in a relationship, I make it a point not to save provocative pictures of other men or woman out of respect for my partner and my relationship. I know most men are not that way, and that most men are into porn. So how do I deal with that? How can I keep from feeling hurt every time I know my boyfriend is looking at someone else with lust?
I know he's just looking, and "at least he's not out there having sex with someone else" but I'm sure he is in his mind and really, how much different is that from actually physically going through with it. Mind you, he doesn't do it often, and he doesn't have a lot of pictures of other women on his computer. It's just one here and there, every now and again, but it still hurts me. Should I seek therapy?